Have you ever felt stuck? Have you ever asked yourself why? One rapid way to get stuck is to try to please everyone. By pleasing people, we find ourselves backed into a corner because, when attempting to make everyone happy, you ultimately make no one happy, especially yourself. The most intense problem with people pleasing… Continue reading The Height of Selfishness – Being a People Pleaser
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Circle of Security: Part Seven
[header size=”1″ type=”single”]BIGGER & BETTER[/header] Secure leaders are not afraid for team members to be better than them. In their mind, it equates to overall success, not personal competition!
Circle of Security Series: Part Five
[header size=”1″ type=”single”]BECOME REFRESHING[/header] Secure leaders are refreshing to those following, and their confidence makes followers feel secure in submitting to their leadership.
Circle of Security Series: Part Four
[header size=”1″ type=”single”]LIFT DON’T LEVERAGE[/header] A Secure Leader lifts their followers; they don’t leverage them. They motivate their followers; they don’t manipulate them. When leading people, we must remember we are leading to a greater cause, not to our success.
Circle of Security Series: Part Three
[header size=”1″ type=”single”]NO NEED TO PRETEND[/header] The Secure Leader is confident, not arrogant, authentic, and not pretentious. There is no need to pretend when you know who you are.